Earlier this year, I was in a discussion on what role home visitation should play in the ministry of a church. Home visitation basically entails a visit by the pastoral staff or elders of a church to each family or member of the congregation in their respective homes to inquire about their spiritual well-being, and to provide support, encouragement, and instruction. A few days ago I quoted the Puritan minister, Richard Baxter, on this very issue. Baxter understood how crucial it was for the minister (and by extension, the elders or other pastoral staff responsible for spiritual oversight) to engage in this sort of work. It would not be a stretch to say that for Baxter, the very life of the church, or at least its vitality, hinged on faithfully carrying out this practice.

To be honest, I was quite shocked by the response of most of those I was talking with; most felt reticent about their churches engaging in such a practice because it would infringe on the privacy of the members of the church and would implicitly communicate that the leadership of the church was seeking some sort of totalitarian dominance over the lives of its parishioners.

At first I thought maybe they conceived of this as an antiquated practice, done in the days when ministers were not as conscious of being relational or relevant (to borrow a few modern terms) in their ministry. But then it occured to me that perhaps part of the reason some might hesitate to engage in such a practice is simply because they are living in a culture that incessantly bombards them with the message that they are autonomous individuals, subject only to their own authority and responsible only for themselves. The 18th and 19th centuries wove into the fabric of Western – and especially American – culture an aversion toward authority, which has largely defined the Christianity of this culture as well. The emphasis turns on the individual as the primary unit, whether it is an over-emphasis on personal salvation or turning subjective experiences and feelings into objective standards of theology and practice. In turn, this means the individual has full responsibility over their life and spirituality, and the church is there to serve them and meet their felt needs.

But that's not how it is supposed to work in the church.

When you are baptised into the church, either as an infant or later in life upon professing faith, you are brought into a family. You are no longer an autonomous individual, but you have been bound to the community of believers who have a shared identity as those called by God to be his people. Naturally, this does not entail giving up your individuality – indeed, Scripture lauds this as a great gift to the church – but it is a declaration that you now belong to a covenant family, living a shared life together as children of the heavenly Father.

If you have spent any time living with as part of a family, you understand this already. Each member of the family has his or her own life, of course, but the nature of family life, even something as simple as living in the same house, means that these individual lives are going to constantly cross paths. And this crossing of paths is not something that family members try to avoid, but they recognise it as an important part of their life together. A family supports each other, encourages each other, and will call each other to account if need be.

Like a family, this is how it is to be in the church. Your life becomes the life of the others you live together with. While you certainly retain a measure of responsibility for your personal life, this responsibility is also taken up by the other members of the church. Many congregations will make vows to either the parents of a child or to a professing believer on the occasion of their baptism to support them, pray for them, and nurture them in their Christian walk. An extra measure of responsibility for this task is given to the leaders of the church. Paul's letters to Timothy and Titus make the importance of spiritual oversight very clear. Likewise, the author of the letter to the Hebrews, clearly a pastor himself, makes mention at numerous points of looking after the spiritual well-being of those he wrote to.

When I was growing up, my father served as an elder in Christian Reformed congregations in Toronto and Bradford, Ontario, for many years and he will tell you that home visitation was among the most blessed and fruitful time of his ministry as an elder. This was largely because he came to really know the members of the congregation under his oversight, and he then knew how to minister to them more effectively. Now, of course, there are some factors that will determine how successful this practice is, and perhaps key in this regard is ensuring the church has godly elders or pastoral leaders; this was a major concern for Baxter in his discussion of the matter.

I know that there are plenty of pastors and church leaders who understand all this and practice it in one way or another. But I think there is a lot of wisdom and benefit to be gained from practicing it in a systematic way, ensuring that during a period of a year, each member or family of a congregation gets to visit with the church leaders responsible for pastoral oversight. This method has something of a proven historical track record since it has been done for centuries. The simple act itself of stepping into someone's home is an intentional way of deepening the level of intimacy and trust in the relationship of the pastor and parishioner. It is a very concrete way of saying to each member of the church, 'We care deeply for you.' All of this lends itself on the one hand to fostering the spiritual growth of a congregation, and on the other hand to strengthening the bond of fellowship of the church as the members come to understand what it means to be a family.

The Christian life was never meant to be lived alone. Don't think of spiritual oversight as an intrusion into your private life, but welcome it as a blessing. God intends for the leaders he appoints to the church to shepherd his flock because, in Isaiah's words, we all like sheep will go astray and turn to our own ways. The church was designed from the beginning to be a family, and her members are intended to live their life together. Our journey through life is enriched and deepened when we travel with others and help each other stay on the path.

So make a cup of tea, invite the leaders of your church into the living room, and share your lives with each other. Because in the end, it's all about the family.

(Below I've attached a PDF file of a chapter on home visitation from a book my father was given when he first became an elder, called The Elder's Handbook. I believe the authors come out of the Christian Reformed Church. It contains a bit of rationale for the practice, as well as some practical tips for how to do it. I think there are some really helpful suggestions here.)

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I am a big fan of getting together with a bunch of theologically-minded guys and spending a few hours together now and then talking about what we have been reading, working through issues that come up in our ministry, or mulling over big questions we have been asking and wrestling with. The preferred setting for this is a pub or coffeeshop, although I'm also perfectly happy to do so while working under the hood of a car, or walking down a city street, or sitting in my living room.

John Stott wished for this sort of thing as well, as a means for ministers to keep their minds sharp and to build each other up. He writes of this being a good practice with a proven historical track record in his book, Between Two Worlds:

I often find myself wishing that local clergy gatherings, whether denominational or interdenominational, could be more effective in stimulating thought. When we meet, we are no doubt obliged to transact some business, but we could also encourage one another in study. The second half of the eighteenth century was the great time for the founding of societies for English clergy, especially evangelicals. The first was Samuel Walker's 'Clerical Club' in Truro (c. 1750), whose purpose was to 'strengthen each other's hands in the work of the Lord'. During the following years about ten others arose in different parts of the country. 'Why may we not meet to pray, when others meet to play at the bowls?' asked Thomas Robinson of Leicester. 'Why may we not have deliberative assemblies, when others of our brethern have their dancing and drinking assemblies? Why may we not seek to edify each other, whilst they care not if they corrupt one another?' The most famous and influential of these clubs was the Eclectic Society, founded in 1783 by John Newton, ex-sea captain and slave trader, but at that time Rector of St Mary Woolnoth in the city of London, and his friends. They met every other Monday. 'We begin with tea,' wrote Newton (the teapot is preserved in the Church Missionary House in London); 'then a short prayer introduces a conversation for about three hours upon a proposed subject, and we seldom flag.' He added that the group deserved to be called the Royal Society since 'I trust the members are all of the royal family, and the King Himself condescends to meet with us.' (190)

Not mentioned in Stott's list is the 'White Horse Inn' of Cambridge, or even Martin Luther's frequent practice of having students over to his home for dinner and home-brewed beer to talk about all kinds of different issues; undoubtedly there are many more groups like these. This sort of thing is, I think, a very healthy practice and worth engaging in on a regular basis. Blogging, of course, is one outlet for me to work through all kinds of things I read and think about and questions I am working through, but I would never substitute it entirely for face-to-face conversation with friends, colleagues and mentors. That kind of interaction is invaluable.

So, who'd like to go get a drink or a cup of coffee?

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I stumbled across this video tonight, and it was fitting since I've been thinking some about Christians working as police officers. Let me know what you think. I might be blogging more on the subject in the coming weeks.

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This post continues a series that will address many of the points on the list compiled by John Muether entitled, "Resisting Modernity: a How-to Guide." You can find the list in full here, and all the posts in this series here.

3. Therefore, don't shop at malls or eat at chains: patronize mom and pop stores wherever possible.
4. Okay, #3 is nearly impossible, especially in Orlando [and other big cities]. But resolve to take smaller steps, like not frequenting "convenience stores" between 8pm and dawn.

We're addressing two points on the list this week, and these two points are closely connected with last week's thought. And here I must confess that I am frequently in violation of Muether's suggestions. I try to excuse it by reminding myself that I am a poor student, which temporarily alleviates my guilt. Also, in my defense, I do live in Orlando and as Muether rightly acknowledges, there is a noticeable lack of mom and pop stores here. Part of that has to do with Orlando's history, but that's another issue. Nonetheless, I know I should do more to support local business.

Why? Well, local businesses play a pivotal role in the cultivation of a local community and culture. Frequently shopping at the so-called "big-box" stores hurts those businesses. Within the realm of suburbia, this is all too common, and in part it accounts for the distorted cultural identity frequently found in suburban areas of big cities. I know among economists, especially those who are strongly free market-oriented, businesses like Walmart commend respect for delivering products at low cost while making huge profits. As I say frequently, I am not an economist. But I do maintain the conviction that when community suffers because of our economic structures, the latter needs to be rethought. A further consideration here, which I won't get into, is how these business models have influenced the American Church. Think about that connection. What has this done to the community of believers?

Muether's point about covenience stores is also helpful. There are a couple of things to consider. First, with many of these stores being open 24-hours, it only helps to feed the consumerist mentality that this culture has. We can get whatever we want whenever we want. There is no restraint imposed upon us, and goods can be had in the blink of an eye. We have no need to stop and think about what we are buying, even though the passing of time often leads us to rethink the purchase of needless items.

Second, this also has a debilitating effect on community, right down to the very foundation of community—the family. Most of us are occupied during the day with our jobs and the various other parts of life, and so we use the evenings to run around to all kinds of stores. However, when we do this, we take precious time away from the cultivation of a healthy family life. If there was no reason to leave the house in the evening, we could take our time with dinner and strengthen the bonds between our loved ones. We could spend time in family worship, or invite friends and neighbors into our homes for an evening of fellowship.

Again, I think this all boils down to the notions of culture and community. Part of the cultivation of a healthy culture and community begins with local businesses. What do you think?

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This post continues a series that will address many of the points on the list compiled by John Muether entitled, "Resisting Modernity: a How-to Guide." You can find the list in full here, and all the posts in this series here.

2. Do not think globally and act locally. That bumper sticker preaches nonsense. The only way we can think and act is locally.

You only need to spend a bit of time thinking about that first statement to realize that it is, in fact, nonsense. Perhaps this might make a bit of sense in the business world (though even that is a stretch), but this idea ultimately falls flat on its face.

What we are really talking about here is community. This notion of "thinking globally" is largely the effort of individuals to separate themselves from whatever place, time, and context they find themselves in. Furthermore, this conscious effort to transcend locality makes this separation intentional, even though they are claiming to still act within some sort of local boundaries.

At the root here is the issue of community. It is unnatural to live any way but locally. No matter where we are, we enter into a very specific place, time, and context and even if we choose to deny it, we cannot live disjointed from that specific locality. In attempting to do so, we forsake that locality and cease to act locally—hence the reason the two stand in opposition, as Muether points out. God has ordained humanity to live in community, and we are responsible for the cultivation of those communities, something we can only do by thinking and acting locally.

There certainly is nothing wrong with what you might call a global consciousness, an awareness of the world at large, both historically and presently—this is actually a very important thing—but that does not fall under the ambiguous idea of "thinking globally." There is a distinction to be made here.

Hopefully it becomes clear how this has considerable implications for the ministry of the Church. The local church is exactly that, a gathering of the people of God from a specific locality. This is the most intentional community there is. If we adopt this untenable mindset of "thinking globally," we inevitably undermine the community of believers that God has called to Himself. We must recognize ourselves as part of the Church universal, but the exercise of our membership in this body takes place in a specific location (at least it should).

What do you think? Also, as a sidenote, do I have any Bulgarian readers who can confirm that the words on the wall in the photo actually say, "think globally, act locally?"

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